An idea that is not dangerous is unworthy of being called an idea at all.
I spent 4 hours at 30,000 feet today, on a plane enroute from LAX to Pittsburgh to visit my man, and, with my head literally in the clouds, I asked my intuition what message to share next with my tribe.
My intuition, smart as she is, led me to pick up the in-flight magazine Hemispheres to thumb through while enjoying my Roasted Salmon Nicoise Salad (the magazine was included in the flight – the meal was not, but worth every penny of its 15 dollar price-tag).
As I was skipping through the magazine, I stumbled upon an article titled “The Upside of Unspeakable Ideas.”
It was a short piece describing an annual “Festival of Dangerous Ideas” whose aim is to “shock people out of their comfortable beliefs” via “ideas that go against mainstream opinion.”
Although topics such as “In Defense of Flogging” don’t stoke my fire, the concept of breaking through our comfortable shells certainly does.
Sometimes we know too much for our own good…or rather, think we know.
The assumptions we make are often validated with our experience because whether we realize it or not, we are subconsciously seeking proof (the famous self-fulfilling prophecy at work).
But what if we adopted a beginner’s mind with everything, acting as if we didn’t know best already?
I began questioning my assumptions around what I believed I was capable of when I moved to LA by myself at 18, again when I embarked on a 7 year adventure in the world as an actress, and now as I show up every day ready to serve as a coach and healer.
I assumed I wouldn’t fit in in LA as a small-town girl from Oklahoma (breaking through that assumption by redefining what identity means to me), assumed only super-connected/super-hot/super-skinny girls got cast in films (breaking through that assumption by getting cast in several great indie films and eventually producing my own), and assumed that no one would be willing to pay me as a coach (I’m so fortunate that they have – and have experienced amazing changes as a result).
The more I realize how little I really know, the more I am open to embrace what I can possibly learn from the most unexpected places (that’s right Hemispheres magazine, I’m looking at you).
Over to you: What new and dangerous idea can you explore today that questions all assumptions you have around what is possible for your life?
P.S. In case you missed it last week, I announced my own dangerous idea – a FREE BONUS hour of one-on-one time with me throughout November (that’s buy one get one on all single sessions).
During these sessions, we get together and break through your assumptions and move toward new possibilities in your life…all while surrounding you with a ton of love and compassion.
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Dreams are a part of the messages the Universe is sending us day in and day out, and recognizing our dream meanings can help to guide us in the choices we make in life.
Nighttime can be a powerful time of learning, of absorption and pure receptivity, as it then that we are able to step aside from our busyness of mind long enough to see, feel, hear, experience the possibilities of what is being offered to us.
It is also a powerful time to meld our left brain insights with right brain creative thinking, and tap back into the power of our imagination to solve our hairiest problems.
I’ve always been fascinated by dream meanings, but it wasn’t until a few years ago that I realized I was seeking interpretations and answers in all the wrong places.
I was checking out dream dictionaries from the library in the hopes that the duck (or the box, or the cross) from my dreams was the same one that millions of others were seeing when they shut their eyes to rest.
Although I believe in the power of universal myths and symbols, I also knew that there was a missing link and that maybe, just maybe, my own background, beliefs, and soul’s journey were shading my dream symbols so that they were unique to my own experience.
So I started on a quest to find a better way, and I came upon The Silva Method’s dream interpretation techniques, which gave me a whole new set of tools for playing with those little gifts from my subconscious mind.
Here is my take on those steps that I have adapted to understand the dream meanings in my own life:
1. Set the intention to remember the dreams
I have spoken before about the power of intention, but simply put, it is putting in a direct order from your conscious mind to the subconscious to pay attention.
This doesn’t have to be complicated (simplicity is one of my core values after all!), so just say to yourself “Mind, I’d like you to remember my dreams tonight.”
You can even state the intention to dream about a particular solution if you’re so inclined…and then wait for the magic to happen :).
Note: if you don’t normally remember your dreams, it’s totally ok if this step takes a few nights – trust you ARE dreaming, and that you can remember them.
2. Keep a dream journal next to my bed – and use it
Again go for simplicity – jot down a snapshot of the characters and action but leave the analysis for the morning. This shouldn’t take more than a few minutes – and if you’re lucky, you’ll slip back into a new dream once done.
3. Put on your Freudian thinking cap, and tune into what each symbol could possibly mean
Do this the next day of course – all dreams will feel crazy if you try to interpret them in the middle of the night – and use that intuitive filter of yours to write out the first thing that pops into mind rather than what you think it “should” mean.
4. Create a personal dream dictionary
This is a bit of a bonus step, but if you really want to get to know what your subconscious mind (and soul!) are telling you, you need to pay attention to how the symbols show up in different dreams.
You can just take a blank notepad (or even one of those address books with the A to Z dividers already built in), then write the symbol at the top of the page with impressions of how you feel about the symbol underneath. For example, you might see a snake and write “Snake” at the top of the page; to some a snake might be frightening but to others it might make you feel curious…or gloriously naughty.
Or maybe you instantly think of a “snake” in your life – jot that person’s name down and ask your intuition if it’s guiding you toward or away from him or her (your body will tell you usually with a feeling of attraction or repulsion).
Key: don’t judge it, just write it.
Over time you will begin to see the recurring symbols and patterns, and then, seemingly out of nowhere, the answer will make sense. This happens quicker for some things than others, but trust that if it is important, it will reveal itself and the connections will become clear.
Of course, sometimes our symbols do have commonalities; for those, I stumbled upon this lovely little infographic to inspire your own interpretation of what might be going on in dreamland:
I’d love to hear from you! In the comments below, share one of YOUR dreams – and the meaning you have created from it.
Every spiritual teacher will remind you of the virtues of giving, but how often are we reminded of the value in taking?
Taking so often implies greed & selfishness, two characteristics we understandably seek to avoid…but love can guide all of our actions, and the act of taking is no different.
So many of us feel drained physically and energetically because we are giving what we don’t have.
We are trying to carry the weight of the world – or at least that of our own personal “worlds” – on our shoulders, and we feel guilty when we take pause to recharge and ask our body and soul “what do you need?”
But the truth is, the Universe wants to shower us with gifts, and taking those gifts is simply our willingness to show up with an open heart and open hands to reach for what we desire. (more…)
A few months ago I treated myself to a retreat in the woods, with the intention of healing and inspiring new creations for my coaching practice.
Not only did I schedule in an amazing White Light healing from Belinda Davidson during my time unplugged, but I had also booked an intense energy-shifting massage from the host of my retreat.
Every attention to detail was paid from the warmth of the room to the richness of the music to the luscious scents of the oils, and I was in bliss as I felt shifts in both my physical and energy body while Randy worked his magic.
Then, the most interesting thing happened. (more…)
As a coach, I am so lucky to work with clients who are ready to truly embrace their role in creating the lives they want to live.
I believe they were able to make big changes in their lives (and that you can too if you so choose!) because they committed to practices that brought both awareness AND action to the mind, body, and soul.
Of course the reason they connected with me and cultivated a support team was because there was something that kept them from where they wanted to be in the first place. (more…)